Every young lady desires to have a great marriage, that is filled with joy, comfort, peace, wealth and almost every good thing a good marriage should have. However, it is not every marriage that has all the afore-mentioned ingredients. The basic reason for this could be as a result of the person one chooses as his/her partner.
However, it is not every marriage that has all the afore-mentioned ingredients. The basic reason for this could be as a result of the person one chooses as his/her partner.
Basically, this article is meant to serve as a guide for ladies who desire to have a great marriage — heaven on earth marriage. In the light of the foregoing, here is the list of the men you must not get married to;
There is no indication that a lady will enjoy her marriage if she has a cheat as her husband. During courtship, the signs of his cheating habits will most likely be exhibited. Every lady should be sensitive enough to detect the traits that can adversely affect a relationship, during courtship.
There is no need getting married to a man that has been cheating while dating you. There is no need getting married to a man who dupes people unremittingly, in order to earn a living.
Beware of men who cheats. If he is cheating on you before marriage. He will still cheat on you when you both get married. A cheat is not fit to be a good husband. Avoid him!
It is good for a man to love his mother and take good care of her. However, beware of men who cannot do anything except they phone their mother. No lady will enjoy that kind of man. The Bible says that the man shall leave his father and mother and shall cleave to his own wife (Gen 2:24).
This bible verse does not indicate leaving a physical structure of one’s parents alone. But it also indicates leaving certain things that the man have been enjoying whilst living in his parents house.
Hence, every man must learn to be a man. Maturity cannot be overemphasized. Converse with your wife and allow her to give you her suggestion. Nevertheless, any man who depends largely on his mother before taking critical decision in his life, is ‘Mummy’s boy.’
The problem with many African men is that we have been indoctrinated to the point, whereby we see women as slaves. If you ask a typical African man whose mind has not been perfectly trained, the reason why he wants to get married.
Such person may say, ”In order to have someone who could help me wash my clothes.” or ”In order to have someone who could help me cook” and other irrelevant and baseless reasons. These kind of men are obviously lazy.
There is no portion of the Scriptures that says women must be the only ones to do all the house chores. Before Sarah cooked for the angels, it was Abraham who RAN to get the calf that would be killed in order to entertain their guests (Gen 18:7). So, Abraham was not lazy.
Please, understand that, the core reason for marriage is not even for procreation but for companionship. Lazy men can hardly do anything by themselves. They cannot cook, sweep, wash their clothes, arrange their rooms and do other house chores that are of necessity. They will always need women to do these things for them.
Lazy men can hardly do anything by themselves. They cannot cook, sweep, wash their clothes, arrange their rooms and do other house chores that are of necessity. They will always need women to do these things for them.
An abusive man is someone who uses cruel words and physical violence. They are women beaters. They care less about the welfare of their wife. They are selfish and self-centered.
Dear beautiful lady, you do not deserve to marry a man that beats you up often. I once heard a woman who said, a man beating a woman is an act of love from her husband. This assertion is not only erroneous but it is also destructive! Please, steer-clear of abusive men.